Friday, May 20, 2011

Big Lil' Is 2

It's been a while since we've written, and of course a lot has happened. Ok, not big things like our shipment arriving, but we've been taking a lot of little steps towards being at home in our new home. We have a bit more furniture, ok just one more piece, but that's like 50% more than before, right? And we've been adapting by making use of what we do have by doing things like turning our suitcases into a bookshelf and toy bin for Lily.

Speaking of the girl, she is officially two now. She made out like a bandit for her birthday, even getting delayed gifts by innocently giving her birthday cupcakes out to the neighbors and apparently making them feel guilty. I guess the cupcakes were that good. Her birthday dreams of hats, bubbles, candles, and two presents were realized. Of course there were a few more than two presents. And an interesting phenomenon occured when she was finished opening her official gifts she started finding things around the house that she had never played with before and suddenly wanting to open them.

Since Mothers' Day she seems to have hit her stride. There's less whining going on, she's learning lots of new words, and is able to express herself more and more. Tonight when going to bed she was trying to say "I love you Mommy", sort of said "love Mommy" and then when I asked her to say it again she said "no, I'm tired". She must have gotten that from her Mommy. :)

The work travel has begun, I spent a couple of days away this past week and Sunday I leave for a week of running around England visiting small customers. Nicole and Lily are taking the opportunity to hop on the train to spend a week with Oma and Opa so no one will get too lonely.

Here are the latest pics and videos...







Sunday, May 1, 2011

Settling In to Settling In

We’ve been here in Munich for two weeks minus a nice long weekend in Leimen. The one thing that is crystal clear at this point is that we have a long period of settling in ahead of us. I’m mainly talking about our living situation, where we made a new addition to our collection of random furniture today by adding a rug. Besides that we’re still where we started, with a bed, crib, kitchen table and three chairs. Our apartment doesn’t feel like a home, and it won’t for at least another week. The main thing we’d like to get at this point is a couch, somewhere comfortable to sit besides our bed. Unfortunately the deck seems to be stacked against us for getting this done quickly. Most German furniture stores seem to take six to ten weeks to deliver a couch. Even buying a couch that is in a warehouse in the area and having it delivered takes three to four weeks. The best we can do is to buy that warehouse-bound couch and pick it up ourselves in seven to ten days, driving a rented delivery truck and carrying it ourselves up to our apartment. So we’re trying to scheme something in between, ordering the warehouse couch and hiring some guys to pick it up and deliver it for us. Sure, if we were twenty-somethings without an almost-two year old or even the thirty-somethings we are with friends to watch Lily, we would do this ourselves. But here we are, sitting on our living room floor moping.

While I’m at it, let me complain that both of us ordered cell phones at least 10 days ago and they have not shown up. Nope, can’t just pick them up at the store, they have to be sent. And our bank account took over a week between establishment and being able to receive a deposit. And the internet service we ordered will be set up four weeks from the order date. So all in all, yes, I am either very spoiled with my American expectation of customer service, or customer service in Germany sucks. Sorry Germany, I wasn’t able to plan every aspect of my life at least a month in advance. And where I could, your lovely restrictions like “you must have a registered German address to open a bank account” put a snag in my plans.

Yes, there’s some frustration at Maistrasse 45, we’re not feeling so settled or satisfied. We’re more wishing we could just hit fast forward for a couple of months to a time when we have furniture, phones, and internet access that doesn’t come from a USB stick accessing the mobile network. Yes, this probably sounds snobby and unappreciative, and yes, we eagerly signed up for this. But that doesn’t mean I can’t rant, does it?

Yes, this is all negative and yes there are some positives but this post is already long enough so let’s just get this out of our system and move on.