Hello 2026!
Overall, 2025 was a touch more turbulent than we would have liked, with work being a big reason why—but we ended the year still employed, so that’s something. Elise started the year by receiving an ADHD diagnosis, which definitely helped explain some of her challenges. Navigating next steps has been challenging at times, but we are committed to figuring out how best to support Elise so her strengths can shine while we find ways to manage what’s especially hard for her. I won’t even get into the political climate 2025 brought—just acknowledging that it was frustrating and full of way too many WTF moments.
We had plenty of moments of pride for our kids. Paul has become increasingly conscientious about his responsibilities, especially with schoolwork. He really hit his stride during cross-country season, setting PRs and having fun with his fast friends. Lily made a verbal commitment to play volleyball in college. She also found a close connection with a special someone who brings her a lot of joy—he’s a great guy. We’re proud of Elise for continuing with piano, improving her German, and getting a lot better at ping pong. She’s a fast learner, and it’s fun to watch how quickly things come to her when she’s truly into something. And the way she handled her fourth surgery to address her leg-length discrepancy showed that even though her anxiety can rear its head, she is also incredibly brave.
December 2025 highlights included Oma and Opa celebrating 60 years of marriage (with Lolo surprising them), Paul and Elise turning 14 and reaching Lily in height, playing and cuddling with our new kitten Moose a lot (and Moxie too, when she allows it), Lily spending part of the holidays in Sunriver without us and having a blast, Nate turning 49 and enjoying a little getaway to the Gorge to help usher in a new age, and of course, fondue with Oma and Opa on New Year’s Eve.
It’s pretty amazing how full our December was, considering sickness hit us hard in tag-team style. Poor Elise was extremely sick starting Christmas morning, and Paul’s illness lingered throughout winter break. Still, all that downtime meant our holiday season overflowed with cat cuddles, cat-play entertainment, Gang Beasts, and ping pong. Lots of movies and shows were watched too—Elise and Nate got into Stranger Things, and Paul still loves the quick laughs 30 Rock brings.
By this time next year, Lily will be in the middle of her senior year and close to turning 18. Elise and Paul may very well have their driver’s permits. Nate and I will be tired—but also incredibly proud of our kids and of 20 years of marriage.
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